I Gave My Daughter a “Forbidden” Name, but I Refuse to Rename Her

A 26-year-old new mom shared a shocking family drama online after naming her newborn daughter Annabelle, a name chosen to honor her husband’s late grandmother. She kept the name secret to avoid past family drama over stolen names. In the delivery room, her dad loved the name, but her mom went pale and left abruptly.
At home, her mom’s silence raised concerns. The mom’s younger sister, Emily, revealed the truth: ten years ago, their dad had an affair with a woman named Annabelle. The name triggered painful memories for their mom, who was now fighting with their dad and considering leaving.
The dad pleaded with the new mom to change the baby’s name, admitting the affair and its lingering impact. She refused, emphasizing the name’s significance to her and her husband. Her dad got upset, but Emily intervened, asking him to leave.
Now, the new mom is torn. Her mom remains distant, her dad is guilt-ridden, and family tensions are high. She’s firm on keeping Annabelle (a pseudonym; the real name is three letters) and the middle name, which is her mom’s. Online opinions are split: some support her right to choose, others empathize with her mom’s pain.