The “sandwich generation” faces immense pressure, balancing childcare, work, and eldercare without adequate support. Nancy, a 35-year-old single mother of three, shared her story of refusing to care for her aging mother without compensation. Her mother, 74, lived rent-free with Nancy and helped with childcare until a fall left her unable to assist. Nancy offered to provide home care if paid, but her mother insisted she was owed care, saying, “I’m your mom—you owe me!” Feeling unappreciated, her mother abruptly moved to a nursing home, taking
furniture—including Nancy’s baby’s crib—claiming Nancy was ungrateful for her past help. Nancy argues she’s not a nurse and can’t manage the physical, emotional, and financial burden alone. This highlights the growing strain on families navigating uncompensated caregiving, sparking debates about fair expectations and support.
