I CONFRONTED MY EX AFTER OUR DAUGHTER WAS TREATED LIKE A FREE NANNY—AND WHAT HAPPENED NEXT SHOCKED ME

My 16-year-old daughter, Sari, who lives part-time with her dad (my ex, Colby) and his wife, called me in tears, saying she’s forced into “night shift” care for their newborn. Her stepmom, Renna, told her she must “earn” her keep. Furious but calm, I drove to their house with donuts, announcing Sari would stay with me. Renna defended their “rules,” but I called it exploitation, noting Sari’s failing grades and fear of being kicked out. Colby didn’t argue, and Sari moved in, sleeping 13 hours and regaining her spirit.

Days later, Colby apologized, admitting he’d let Renna overburden Sari due to postpartum struggles. He’s seeking counseling with Renna and requested Sari stay with me full-time until stable. He apologized to her face, a tearful moment signaling growth. He’s now more involved, showing Sari her worth isn’t tied to labor. Though Colby and I aren’t close, and Renna remains distant, Sari feels safe. Protect kids in adult messes—grown-ups must act responsibly.