A 28-year-old woman confessed on Reddit to cheating on her husband 13 times over a year—mostly one-night stands with two repeat partners—shattering their once-happy marriage. “I’m a horrible person,” she wrote, admitting she lied, gaslit, and manipulated him when caught, making him feel like he was overreacting.
Shocking many, she clarified in comments: Cheating had zero motive. Their marriage was healthy, sex life great, no resentment. “I did it because I wanted to. I had everything and still wanted more because I was selfish—like a child with a packet of sweets craving extras.”
A divorce threat and separation woke her up. “It took losing him temporarily to realize how priceless he is.” For 1.5 years, she’s rebuilt: full disclosure via counselor, individual therapy, accountability. Her husband, initially coping by overworking, now smiles more, enjoys hobbies, and opens up in deep talks. Trust is low, but he’s testing if she’s worthy—ready to leave anytime.
“I took the chance because I want him,” she said. “I reject my selfishness, apathy, cruelty. He’s given me unconditional love for ten lifetimes—now it’s my turn. Our marriage was the most stable, loving one I’ve had; I messed it up, but I’m fighting to be the best wife.”
Ashamed and hopeful, she admires him fully: “Short-term flings weren’t worth losing my dearest person. I’m no fool—I’ll never squander this second chance.”
