My MIL Banned Me and My Kids from Using the Bathroom for a Whole Week –
When I Ignored Her and Went in Anyway, I Screamed

When my mother-in-law, Cynthia, moved in after her husband’s death, her grief filled our home with a heavy silence. She wanted to be near our kids, but her presence disrupted my orderly life—towels misplaced, shampoo caps left open. When my husband, Malcolm, left for a week-long trip, Cynthia imposed a bizarre rule: no one could use the bathroom with the tub.
I protested—it was our only full bathroom—but Cynthia insisted, guarding the door like a sentry. After two days of sink baths and frustration, I snuck in and discovered four timber rattlesnakes in the tub. Cynthia had rescued them, claiming they were “slightly venomous” and needed a warm, quiet space. Furious, I called Malcolm, who demanded she remove them immediately.
Cynthia relocated the snakes to her house, setting up proper enclosures. The bathroom reeked, requiring hours of scrubbing. She apologized, admitting her grief drove her to care for the snakes. Days later, she invited us to see their terrarium, seeming calmer in her own space. The kids asked if she’d return. I said we’d prioritize safety, unsure if her need to nurture would bring more surprises.