I CONFRONTED MY EX AFTER OUR DAUGHTER WAS TREATED LIKE A FREE NANNY—
AND WHAT HAPPENED NEXT SHOCKED ME

My 16-year-old daughter, Sari, called me crying, saying her stepmom, Renna, forced her to care for their newborn overnight as “rent” for living part-time with her dad, Colby. Furious, I drove to their house with donuts, confronted them, and took Sari to live with me. Renna justified it as “rules,” but I called it exploitation, noting Sari’s failing grades and fear of eviction. Colby didn’t resist, and Sari moved in, finally resting. Days later, Colby admitted his failure, citing Renna’s
postpartum struggles but taking responsibility. He agreed Sari could stay with me full-time, apologized to her sincerely, and began therapy with Renna. Colby started showing up for Sari—texting, attending her play, bringing flowers. Though trust isn’t fully rebuilt, Sari knows her worth isn’t tied to others’ demands. She’s loved for being herself. Parents must protect kids caught in adult conflicts, acting as the grown-ups they’re meant to be.