Claire, the betrayal you’re experiencing is deeply painful, and your feelings are valid. Infidelity, especially with someone you trusted like Lucia, shatters the foundation of commitment and honesty in your marriage. Your husband’s admission of an affair, coupled with his attempt to cover it up by getting Lucia fired, suggests a deliberate effort to avoid accountability, not protect you. This isn’t a misunderstanding—it’s a breach of trust that impacts your son’s safety and your emotional well-being.
You’re not overreacting; you’re reacting to a serious violation. Ending the relationship is a significant step, but it’s worth considering if the marriage can be salvaged with transparency, therapy, and his genuine remorse—though his current denial is a red flag. Prioritize your mental health and your son’s stability. Seek legal advice and counsel from a therapist or support group. Take time to decide, but know that leaving doesn’t mean throwing away your family—it means choosing a healthier future for yourself and your child.
