I Refused to Help My Homeless Mother After She Left Me

Lauren, a 42-year-old widow, faced a moral dilemma when her estranged mother, homeless and ill, reappeared after 17 years. At 25, Lauren was left alone with four young children after her husband’s sudden death. Desperate, she sought help from her mother, who chose her new boyfriend over Lauren and her kids, offering no support. Lauren persevered, raising her children with help from her in-laws, working multiple jobs, and earning a degree. Now, her mother,
abandoned by her boyfriend and jobless, begged for help. Lauren, recalling her mother’s betrayal, gave her money and a shelter’s address but refused to let her stay. Her children have mixed feelings, with her oldest suggesting forgiveness, while her in-laws support her decision. Lauren questions if she’s cruel for protecting her family’s peace. Her choice reflects strength and boundaries, prioritizing the family she built over a mother who abandoned her.