Woman Asks Husband of 30 Years for Divorce Even Though He’d Done Nothing — Story of the Day

My husband Zack was shocked when I asked for a divorce after 30 years of marriage. He thought he was a good husband, but I was unhappy. Our realities clashed when I told him I was leaving on our 30th anniversary, after our youngest child left home.

Zack couldn’t believe it and asked why. I explained that he did nothing when I needed help—during childbirth, illness, grief, menopause, or when his mother was mean to me. He never showed me love or attention.

He claimed I never told him, but I had—every time I asked for help or affection, and when I begged for couples therapy five years ago, which he refused. Now he offered to go, but it was too late. I felt only sadness and pity for him.

I moved out, started a new life in Venice Beach, and transformed myself. My kids were shocked but said I looked 20 years younger. A year later, I met Sam, a kind man who loves and spoils me. We’re set to marry in the summer.

Zack’s now dating a younger woman who controls him and spends his money. We all get what we deserve.