Money often sparks conflict within families, and the strain can feel even heavier in blended households. Harper found herself caught in a delicate dilemma when her eldest son, from her first marriage, stood to inherit a significant sum from his late father. Seeking guidance, she decided to share her story and ask for advice on handling this tender situation. Here is Harper’s letter:
“My former husband passed away, leaving our 15-year-old son $300,000, which I’m entrusted to oversee until he turns 18. I also have a 12-year-old son from my second marriage. My current husband believes we should dip into that inheritance to fund our younger son’s education. I said no. His response cut deep: ‘What kind of mother are you? You shield the rich kid while ignoring the poor one!’ I didn’t reply—I just sat there in silence.”
